VAST
HORIZON
C/Engr. Rodolfo B. Virtudazo
The grace of humility
HAVING experienced the art and technique of negotiating
repair bills, which is the most crucial part of a superintendent’s job,
marks another milestone in my newfound career. That was in my recent assignment
at Sembawang Shipyard in Singapore when I was assigned there for dry docking
supervision on one of Patt Manfield’s vessels. When I was in Tsakos Shipyard
(Montevideo, Uruguay) last April – June 2003, I did not take part in the
negotiation as I was mainly concentrating on the repair of the rudder system.
After that “tension-filled” and “nerve-wracking” bargaining
with shipyard’s commercial staff, a colleague commented that I am now a
full-fledged marine superintendent. But for me, what was more significant
during my three-week stint in Singapore was being able to experience the
grace of humility.
I was assigned to work with Mr. Li, the most senior superintendent
in Patt Manfield, Hongkong. Prior to my mission to the Lion City, I was
told that he is a man of few words, and not as sociable as Mr. Leung, my
first teammate as superintendent. I was assured though that I should not
take his reticence as a sign of indifference. He is generally a nice person
but it’s just that he seems to have that air of aloofness about him.
The tip-off was indeed true. The first time I met him
for dinner at the hotel with our GM, Mr. Yung, I found Mr. Li truly tight-lipped.
I seemed to be on tenterhooks as I braced myself for his authoritative
look. I wished I could figure out his thoughts and feelings as the GM and
I did most of the talking.
In our first few days of encounter, I could not help but
feel all the respect and reverence for Mr. Li. At almost 70 years of age,
he is still very healthy, in tip-top shape to be exact. He has a good posture
unlike other people his age. He walks briskly. I observed too that
he did not catch his breath in going up and down during our cargo hold
and ballast tank inspections.
He could eat any food, without any restrictions at all.
Seeing him savor prawns and pork almost every meal every day left me in
awe. While poor me could only feast on fish, chicken, and vegetables in
Manila for fear that the monster gout would be awakened after many years
of hiber-nation.
Mr. Li always insisted that I partake of the prawn dishes
and suggested gravy or sauce that went well with them. I was touched because
under that seemingly unfriendly bearing is a caring person. How could I
refuse such fatherly gesture? So I relished on the delicious seafood which
I tried to avoid before.
My worst fear happened. I felt my elbow aching. Oh no,
I panicked, thinking of those days years ago when just a passing wisp of
air on the affected joint would leave me in excruciating pain. When Mr.
Li learned about it, he did not allow me to carry out my inspection that
day. He immediately ordered medicines for gout from the ship chandler.
Gladly, the pain was gone the following day. I also tried
to avoid the shrimps, but as always, the paternal concern in him that I
enjoy my meal gave way to my diet plan. I just saw to it that I prayed
first to ask God to bless the food and melt the uric acid if there were
any. Miraculously, the pain was gone until I came back to Manila.
It was a humbling experience. Here I am, very much younger
than Mr. Li, but is very conscious of what I eat, especially those very
rich in calories and cholesterol.
In our three weeks of working together, we had good rapport.
I gave him due respect in decision-making. I was able to make him laugh.
Before long, we were sharing ideas about our job and the plans of the Company.
He confided that his blood pressure and complete blood che-mistry are all
normal. I also learned that he jogs for one hour in the morning and
swims for another hour in the evening. No wonder.
He would rather work than talk. His vast knowledge and
experience show in his technical expertise and his way of dealing with
people in the shipyard and on board.
When I was much younger, I was a proud person. I bragged
about my potentials and achievements. I did not allow anybody to upstage
me in terms of discussion on any topic under the sun. I would not
allow anybody to curtail my pride. But as the years went by, I am glad
that I have learned my lessons well, espe-cially on the grace of humility.
I think the formation seminars that I have attended in our parish helped
a lot, too. Like, in one of St. Peter’s epistles to the Christian
communities in Asia Minor, he wrote, “Clothe yourselves with humility
in your dealings with one another, for God opposes the proud but bestows
favor on the humble.” So now, I’d rather concentrate on developing
my craft than basking in the limelight of vainglory.
I’m now sharing this experience to our millions of Tinig
ng Marino readers, not to extol self-glorification but rather to impart
some values in life which I’ve gained as I walk down the road of change.
Anyway, back to Mr. Li. When it was parting time, I don’t
know but I felt a tinge of sadness. He was flying back to Hongkong and
me to the “land of more than the usual.” At any rate, it won’t be long
before I’d be seeing him again. I am looking forward to our next dry docking
supervision on or about ultimo-October. |
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